Saturday, September 8, 2007
Tread Softly and Carry a Big Stick
Thursday, September 6, 2007
23 and Counting
Adam is doing well, and says "Hello to all and to all hello."
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Counting Down the Days---25 Days Left
Labor Day Weekend
Friday evening, I packed up the girls' and my stuff, and we set out for a campground a few miles from the house. Some of Janice's coworkers had reserved some campsites and invited us three girls along, so we made the most of it. Sitting under the stars that night, chatting with folks over a campfire, I realized there was no better way to celebrate the end of the field season. We camped alongside the Umpqua River, with a pair of great blue herons, a soaring eagle and many hungry ground squirrels to keep us company. What a wonderful experience.
At the bbq on Sunday, I met a friend of Janice's who's retired and has several horses on his property. He was lamenting that all of his friends still work during the week so he never has anyone to go riding with. One woman said she'd go riding with him if he paid her. He laughed and said all the pretty ladies want to be paid to go out with him. I love horses, and thought I'd risk being rude, so I said, "I'm out here for another 3 weeks and you wouldn't have to pay ME to go out with you...." He looked at me and told me to show up Monday morning for a ride. So Monday morning, Janice and I drove a little ways down the road and met up with Dave and some friends for a 2-hour ride through the hills. It was wonderful. It was the first non-tourist horse ride I've ever taken, so I had to be in constant control of the horse. She was a little frisky, even at 19 years old, and she wanted to take off several times. I had to learn how to make her calm down, slow down to a walk, and recover from incidents with the other horses. I felt a little "western" that day. Once Janice and I got home, I noticed that I was having a weird reaction--the entire right side of my face was breaking out in a rash, and my right eye had swollen shut. I was also starting to have a difficult time breathing. I don't think I"m allergic to horses, but I don't know what else could have triggered this reaction....Janice raced to get me a Benadryl and I washed my face off. I just remember passing out on the floor for several hours after that; I kept waking up with a bad headache. Janice cancelled her plans to go into town to keep an eye on my condition. What a roommate, huh? So that was my Labor Day weekend. It was great!
Thursday, August 30, 2007
One More Day
Not much to report here, so I thought I'd just pop a few pics onto the blog for your viewing pleasure. Oh yes! I found a new WiFi hotspot...a little used bookstore just a couple exits from the house. It doesn't serve food, but has coffee and tea, so that's good. It also has nice (but not creepy nice) folks working there, so I don't have to worry about getting the heebie-jeebies anymore.
Anyhoo, just a few pics so you can see what's been goin' on...
Sunday, August 26, 2007
Seeking: New WiFi Spot
Well, since those initial encounters with him, he has followed me outside to gaze at me while I got into my car and drove away, massaged the back of my neck and hovered over me when serving me my coffee. I finally decided (way later than I should have) that enough was enough. After he tickled the back of my neck while I was on the phone with Adam, I put Ads on hold and firmly told SCM that I was uncomfortable with his habit of touching me. He seemed surprised and embarassed, and said, "I'm so sorry, you see, I come from a big affectionate family, and that's just my way." In case he was suggesting that I am devoid of affection, I responded, "I come from an affectionate family, too, but you see, that's my family, and so it's different." He got my point (and my tone), and his touchy-feeliness has not been an issue since. In fact, he has made a point of standing a good 5 ft or so away whenever he addresses me (which is silly, but FINE with me!).
Things came to a head for me in the last week, though. SCM decided that although he can't touch me, he can still be really skeezy. The straw that broke the proverbial camel's back came over the course of two days. One day, he followed me out to my car under the pretense of talking about the girls (who were in the car at the time). He stood way too close to me as I was trying to get in my car, opened my cardoor for me (not in a chivalrous way), and proceeded to linger next to my car, leering at me, while I was trying to get the hell out of there. A couple days later, he came by the table I was sitting at and started asking me personal questions--where I'm from, what I'm doing in Oregon, how long I'm staying--all while he was very obviously reading my blog (which was on my screen at the time). That clinched it for me. He didn't even pretend to be looking at something else. I should have slammed my laptop shut but the "nice girl" in me wasn't assertive enough to do that. He proceeded to tell me how much he was going to miss me once I had left Oregon. Yuck. I'm never going back to that place, never giving him my money, my time or my presence. I'm typing all this from the house dialup right now.
So...now I am searching for a new spot to do my Internet work...be patient if it takes me a couple days to find a place I like. For me, a couple days without highspeed is worth a lifetime without SCM.
Gordon Lightfoot
I was a little surprised by how small and frail Gordon is now, and his voice is quite a bit changed from the deep, rich, melodious quality we know from his prime recording years. In fact, I could see him shaking his head sometimes when he didn't quite hit some of those higher notes. But everyone in that crowd was SO happy to see him there, singing and healthy. He went through some very difficult health problems a few years ago; he is lucky to be alive, let alone still performing.
He performed a lot of my favorites--"The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald", "Carefree Highway", "If You Could Read My Mind", "Cotton Jenny"--as well as some off his latest albums. He really has great stage presence and won over a crowd that was already in love with him with good stories and even better jokes. I also realized how lucky I was to see him--he was only performing in 5 cities this year! Needless to say, I really enjoyed the concert and look forward to getting his new album. We love you, Gordo!!!